You're just too good to be true. More than likely you're short, broke, ugly, fat, have a 2" cock, too fat to bend over and wipe your butt let alone be able to pick anything up, jump or even walk. LOSER!
Posted 2/9/2010 5:51 am
Largely, I believe that women look for a couple of items to detect the Alpha:
1. Financial irresponsibility or large access to cash. Either way, the woman gets the free money she craves.
2. Some level of "devil may care" lifestyle, which supports number 1, but also provides the pointless drama that the woman craves.
3. Evidence of previous relationships, which means that the male has already been "approved" by the female population at large. Hey, employers don't want to hire the unemployed, right? Neither do women want men who are "unused".
Posted 2/9/2010 5:54 am
That's what pisses me off the most, as it happens. Men who find women (rightfully!) dysfunctional, are actually in a GREAT position by being rejected by -- or disconnected from -- women. They should count their blessings. They should FAP AND WIN. They get to keep ALL their money, and they don't have to wake up to a demon-harpy-bitch one morning simply because a few micrograms of chemicals in her brain told her to GO APESHIT.
"I would never dream of using force of any sort (mental or physical) in order to persuade a woman to be romantic with me."
THIS: FORCE OF ANY SORT
Physical violence is a subset of a MUCH LARGER SET of methods in which force is used. Head games. Yelling. The "silent treatment". Passive aggression. Etc.
If you're going to pretend to not understand, I'm going to belittle you for doing so.
Posted 2/9/2010 6:13 am
That's a good summary. After all, many relationships were constructed upon a foundation of each person's WEAKNESSES, not their STRENGTHS.
Remember that ABUSE comes in many forms. Abuse can be commonly and easily measured by noting the FORCE and DECEIT used in the relationship. Once you admit that particular FACT to yourself, you will note how many relationships around you (even your OWN) have a lot of force and deceit involved.
What are you going to say now to get out of that corner you painted yourself in, Katy? That the divorce rate ISN'T FIFTY PERCENT?!?!?!? I'm only stating the PERFECTLY OBVIOUS. But however obvious it all is, people live in DENIAL ... which is 169% aligned with the deception that exists in most relationships.
About the only "partnership" you see is where each person uses the other person to prop themselves up taller than their own WEAKNESSES. However, they choose other people from the viewpoint of those weaknesses, meaning they don't make the right choices. So you end up with two people, each trying to claw higher by using the other person for leverage. It's like two cats, tied together with a length of rope, and then that rope is tossed over a horizontal cable. Obviously, it just doesn't work.
DECEIT alone makes relationships not worth pursuing, when you consider the chance ... since so much of the public is used to it. I've found most women to be RUINED by their experiences with the vast number of abusive men out there.
Posted 2/9/2010 6:49 am
I knew you'd eventually (but soon enough) stop discussing the topic and descend into pure ad hominem statements. You can't fight the truth, so you try to kill the messenger.
Yet it's still true: Most relationships are based upon force and/or deceit. They are fatally flawed, like religion is. It doesn't matter how many people subscribe to such flaws. Remember well that TRUTH ISN'T DEMOCRATIC. You don't determine sociological truths by seeking the opinion of the majority.
I'm only stating the PERFECTLY OBVIOUS. But however obvious it all is, people live in DENIAL ... which is 169% aligned with the deception that exists in most relationships.