Posted 2/11/2010 1:43 am
Most women you know are doing remarkably puerile things that involve social topics. I doubt more than 10% of them know the right way to hold a wrench.
Every women I have been with, and every women my friends have been with, and their friends too have the mental age of about 15. If they are going to be that young and stupid then they better be hot fuck machines.
Going through the list myself of girls I dated (small list), girls who rejected me (much larger) and girls I know.
So far, all 15 year olds mentally, with the exception of three. Of those three (all 50 or near 50), two are close to 25 mentally, and one is late 20's.
The problem with the "if you choose the right woman, the unfairness of divorce court is irrelevant" attitude is that you'd HAVE to get it right. For the rest of your life. Or you're royally fucked.
No woman would agree to the reverse situation where they stood to lose everything, because no matter how remote they thought the danger, they'd recognize that it was real and applied to them--and was grossly unfair.
A lot of men are in denial of this, because their self-image is based on thinking themselves as superior to other men (in judgment, desirableness, character, etc) and so think they are immune to any of the misfortune that they think is only suffered by "lesser" men (who deserve their fates through failure of judgment, character, etc).
They are also in denial of the fact that women taking men to the cleaners in divorce and minimizing father contact with the kids is the standard, not the exception. They think that their superior judgment prevents them from ever having this happen to them anyway.
They are so smug in their arrogance that they can't conceive of the injustices ever applying to them, and have pre-judged any man who does suffer them as deserving of his fate, so see no need to reform the system. In theory, their perfect marriages would be unaffected either way, so reform is a waste of time and being a superior man who can guarantee himself a stable marriage for life is the only real answer.